A glimpse of my wedding

Heyyyy finally got married yowwww

.....well here goes the story...

1. Almost cancelling the wedding 3 times in 3 month, yep suddenly no approval from groom side. Even the engagement party already done few month back.

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2. The party is on...but yes no one from groom side is coming, sad but true. And got help from Rani and Nicky to replace their position standing on the party and get handshake from all the guess hahah I love them so bad

 

3. Got almost all my besties coming, some of them cant make it, I prepare too much things to entertain everyone who got my invitations and hoping all of them can come.

4. Okay lets the sad thing left behind... my day is still my big day. Got my dress well prepared by Vinnova Tailor - mba Alda (ig @Aldasafira). The wedding room and of course the event is awesome, thanks to the WO - Lebeau (ig @Lebeau_wo) very recommended WO and photography. Very talentented band from Fani's friend. Got auto print picture from Selvio (ig @Selvioandfriends) and of course all the bridesmaid with blue electric mode on and all Bullseye's family that giving the best support ever. And my parents... I know they were very sad with the situation between me and the groom but they keep stay beside me and with all family came through.

5. ELMO's is coming...yeay big surprise because he made my day :)))

6. Sure I will do a flashback party soon to make sure all the invitation will come hahha thats will be my dream for anniversary party

So what happen next

Didnt know how hard to be Libra
yep Libra...a sign of scale...where the person never know what is the best should do

I believe i'm pathetic libra where i cudnt make sure either my decision is good or not
I cudnt stop thinking that Me making a wrong decision when something not happen like it suppose to be

I'm talking about job environment....just want to give the best but somehow it's not right... That's not right because someone say so.... i try to gave a lead but that not giving any impression at all...
and im losing my faith....

I ever trying to be a good friend,... but as one of my friend said : " There is almost always one person that cares too much, and one that doesn't care enough.....YEP.... it happen twice if i calculate in past 6 years ago...and the last one happen few days ago...i mean yesterday hahaha my Question : Do i make something wrong so you ignore me?


I failed to manage my feeling and it keep up and down... and made me weak... day and day.....

3 in 1

Kerja di kota besar ga selalu menjanjikan kedamaian. Damai sih sama kerjaan sama gaji sama waktu kerja, ga damainya cuman sama jadwal 3 in 1. Yayayya kantor baru berlokasi di jl. Sudirman, ditengah kota banget yang harus banget hadep hadepan sama skedul 3 in 1 yang kelar di jam 7. Sedangkan sebenernya udah bisa pulang dari jam 5an. Rasanya mau nangis tiap hari nunggu jam 7 pffttt


Tapi semua berlalu selama setahun penuh dengan damai kok. Tergantung cara mensiasatinnya aja. Dan akhirnya kantor juga habis masa berlaku kontrak di Sudirman dan ternyata dapat di gedung jamsostek, well lebih dekat dengan akses lebih mudah. Tapi gosipnya pulangnya tetep kena 3 in 1...oh Well...ini lah problem yang sepertinya susah di tinggalkan

Syukurnya ada angkot, syukurnya kantor lebih dekat sama rumah jadi harusnya sedikit kesusahan akan hilang sih :). Ada alternatif pake joki, tapi scary ya mesti naikin orang asing di dalam mobil.
Ada alternatif ajak anak kantor yang sayangnya ga ada yang searah. Dan alternatif terakhir naek angkot, hmmm hal ini menjadi pertimbangan awal di bulan Agustus 2014... let see if i can face 3 in 1 and become more more hemat *hadewdemipersiapanakhirtahun

Jakarta oh Jakarta

alkisah makan siang di gedung mayapada,duduk disebelah 2 orang ibu2 yg lagi gosipan

ibu 1: "duh dia ga tau apa gw lagi bawa tas gw yg ini" sambil benerin tas LV fake ..."gw mesti ke daerah dia...naek apa ya?" (gw gerah liat tasnya sih ...gw tau yg aseli berat tp ini berat gegara dia bawa perlengkapan pindahan rumah)

ibu 2: "naek busway aja?! eh itu tas loe mahal ya, mesti ati2" (hallooo busway itu jalurnya bu...mau ngesyot??)

Ibu 1 : iya nih kmren gw baru beli tasnya... eh anak gw minta beliin jam nih,2,9 juta-- sambil maen bb, bb jadul ya anak anak jadul parah

ibu 2 : ya udah beli aja murah lho itu, oh iya gw kmren ga jd nginep di puncak pdhal suami gw dah bawain baju deh -- sambil goyang-goyangin kaki dengan sandal HERMES ungu modelnya birkinstock

selanjutnya datang ibu 3 yg datang-datang bahas apartment 1 M

ibu 1 : ahh gw mah udah ga perlu apartment soalnya udah ada Villa di puncak

gw makan siang penuh sinetron amat ya....ini ibu2 serba ga mau kalah pffftt

Macetnya Puncak

On the way ke Puncak pas macet macetnya...nemu banyak banget orang-orang nawarin jasa utk motong lewat jalan kampung...Bukan apa-apa sih tp nie orang-orang gengges dan menuhin jalan...kalo pun kita milih mereka, palakan tiap pojokan bikin bad mood...dan ajaibnya ditengah macet dan banyakan palak liar...epic si polisi duduk tenang diposkonya...

Vietnam Trip -- Day 4-7

Yeays..lanjutttt...dari Danang kita memastikan menuju kota lain di Vietnam bernama Hue. Kebetulan cuaca lagi super buruk, jadinya kita naek kereta api dan terpaksa cancel pesawat kita. Tapi jangan sedih, kereta di Vietnam yang versi mahalnya which is murah di indonesiakan udah super comfort, macam kereta api nya Harry Potter gitu. Perjalanan sekitar 4 jam, lumayan lah gosip plus tidur ama liat-liat pemandangan. 1 room isi 4, kita sharing sama 2 orang vietnam lainnya. *gw ngarepnya bule sih hahaha.

Di Hue itu pusat kebudayaan sih, kita jalan-jalan ngeliat kerajaan-kerajaan, dari kompleksnya sampe Thombnya...kuburannnya. Dan semua luasnya buset beratttt. Dan bangunannya keren-keren, banyak arsitektural Eropa dalam bangunan-bangunan tua nya...pengarunya oke pisannn.. Saking banyaknya thomb yang kita kunjungin, hanya beberapa yang fotonya muat nih ...tapi wajib sihhh bagi yang suka sejarah mampirrrrrrrr. Khusus disini kita sewa taksi yang nganterin kita dari satu thomb ke thomb lainnya. Sukurnya dapat taksi yang lancar bahasa inggrisnya dan bantu ngejelasin peristiwa-peristiwa yang terjadi di sejarah. Plus dia juga ngasi tau tempat makan Pho super enakkkk...huffff susahhhhh kalo ga makan yeee :).

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Dari Hue, hari selanjutnya kami ke Hanoi, kasusnya adalahhhh lagi ada badai katrina kalo ga salahhhh jadi pesawat kami pun cancel penerbangannya terpaksa naek kereta lagi 12 jam. Capekkk ya booooooo.....udah gitu kami juga terpaksa cancel trip ke Halong Bay karena kondisi ga memungkinkan. Padahal Halong Bay tujuan utama sih, tapi jadinya kami punya spare waktu 2 harian ga jelas di Hanoi, keliling, belanja dan makan jadi aktivitas kami...Bahkan sampe ujan-ujanan juga gegara badainya oke punya.Sempat juga ketemuan sama salah satu sahabatnya jo dan suaminya, dan tebak...kami mencoba makanan orang gunungnya Vietnam...berupa... TELOR SEMUT...wooooooo

Telor Semut diatas nasi kering

Makanan di pasarnya enak-enak

Seminggu penuh di Vietnam...minus Halong Bay memastikan kami harus kembali untuk hutang Halong Bay...Setiap harinya kami memastikan nyobain makanan-makanan PHO yang superb semuanya enak. Kuah dagingnya maknyos berat. Dan jalan-jalan disana juga murah dan menyenangkan. Bahkan i'm enjoying not doing nothing sih. Tapi tetep Indonesia lebih enak sih...karena beberapa wilayah di Vietnam penuh dengan motor-motor dan agak jorok. Tapi bangunan sejarahnya semuanya di take care sama mereka. Kehidupannya juga tenang dan adem ayem. So untuk alternative liburan boleh ngikutin list liburan ini :)
Have a spirit of getting lost in many place ...

Vietnam Trip - Day 1-3

Awalnya rencananya bareng-bareng rame-rame, apa dikata kesibukan dimana-mana yang jadinya berangkat hanya 2 orang ...gw ama Jo...hmmmm dengan tujuan Vietnam, dimana itenerary disusun dengan begitu bersemangat oleh Jo. Yes, Johan begitu bernapsu dengan liburan 1 minggu aka 7 hari penuh dengan skedul yang sungguh padat...well seandainya skedulnya terpenuhi dengan saksesnya mungkin liburan ini akan sangat sempurna, sayangnya kita tidak mempertimbangkan adanya bencana alam...
Here goes the story, 2 years ago....

23 Oktober 2012 izin setengah hari dari kantor, kita naek Lion Air dengan penerbangan jam 5 sore tujuan Saigon-- dasar centil niat terbang 3jam kita dandan super maksimal duonkkkk

at. Soekarno Hatta Airport

Mungkin karena terlalu bersemangat, datang terlalu cepat dan punya cukup waktu buat narcis di bandara, oh yeaahh outfit sudah janjian FULL COLOR... miapahh dehhh terbangnya naek Airasia yang kebetulan dapat harga Rp. 500,000 sajah :)

Nyampe di Saigon udah cukup malam sih, secara 3 jam perjalanan, dan harus ngejar ke hotel juga buat check in, tapi hal pertama yang harus dilakukan adalah tuker mata uang ke Dong ...VND--- 1$=20000VND, sangat disarankan untuk bawa Dollar, dan ga nuker dari jakarta, suka ditipu gitu soalnya kalo nuker dari rupiah dibuat sama, padahal uang kita 2 kali Vietnam deh. Oh ya untuk itenerary hotel semua kita book sehari seblum keberangkatan ke Vietnam via Agoda. Harga hotelnya beragam dari kisaran Rp.120000-Rp 200000,- dan semuanya enak banget.

Kiri: Hotel di Hoi An dan Kanan: Hotel di Saigon

Hari Kedua adalah saat nya untuk menjelajah... Wisata di Saigon adalah tempat-tempat berbau kebudayaan, bangunan-bangunannya sangat menyenangkan di Saigon, Ho Chi min inih. Dari Big Budha, Gereja Katedralnya yang okeberat, Bangunan pemerintahannya, Tempatnya Kera Sakti, sampe kantor pos nya punya arsitektural keren

Hari Ketiga kita maen ke Danang dan Hoi An, untuk sampai ke Danang kita mesti beli tiket pesawat, saat itu kita memilih menggunakan Jet Star...mursida boooo... Nah Danang ini kaya Balinya Indonesia, dia lebih daerah pantai gitu. Disini kita sewa mobil setengah hari untuk mengantarkan kita keliling Danang dan menuju Hoi An. Langsung dong mampir ke Pantai terdekat dan patung Dewi Quan In yang gede bangettt..... wajib banget di kunjungi. Pemandangannya dari atas macam Rio De Janeiro.

Dari Danang kita menuju Hoi An sekitar 1-2 jam lah naek mobil. Hoi An itu kota kecil di Vietnam hampir kaya Gili Di Bali. Ini daerah wajib banget dikunjungin, selain hotelnya murah dan nyaman lokasinya asik. Kegiatan males-malesan paling tepat dilakukan disini. Dijulukin kita Lampion karena kalo malam banyak lampion ditengah kotanya. Makanannya juga enak-enak lho, tetep ada Pho nya.
Kegiatan selain malas-malasan, di Hoi An terkenal sebagai tempat tukang jait paling oke. Jait baju 1 hari jadi di Hoi An, gosip dan kabar burung nih, bahkan film 007, semua suit nya dijait di Hoi An, dan tebak selain jadi cuman 1 hari, harganya murah bangettttttttttttttt.....Cucokk deh... rasanya masih pengen stay. Oh ya ditengah pusat aktivitasnnya juga bisa liat2 bangunan-bangunan peninggalan dan beberapa masih dipake, bahkan ada beberapa museum juga, dan semua bisa dilakukan dengan jalan kaki. Oh ya juga ada pantai, tapi suggestion mending nyewa motor ya karena sepedahan bikin pegel. lumayan 2km dari hotel pantainya :)

Go to next day on next post

whats wrong???... LOVE???

Love sometimes made you blind

Love often made you think beyond normal

Sometimes you re not using logic anymore when it comes about love...

Tragic is when love changes you...becoming another person with different personality

yeah it happen....

but if it comes in a good way, where logic and lust equal...love is the reason of happiness

Valentine.... as the day you ask me to

Having a lot of interest to ELMO and suddenly you got Valentine ticket to have breakfast with ELMO.... akkhh I love ELMO on that day 15 Feb 2014 ....i spend all day on Universal Studio in Singapore..... and i love how i end the day...when you ask me to.... and i said yes :)

January getaway in Bali 2014

Went for Chinese New Year Holiday in Bali, when actually we went also for working from Bali. Yes, my new office based in Bali, and it gave us flexibility to come to Bali for some short vacations.
For this holiday, we want to introduce Indonesia to Mr Smith aka Nicky, our team from UK, who never had any experience about Indonesia. We already prepare things to do in Bali, but here some fact happen there:

1. Our schedule for Nicky was ruined. We suppose to have lunch next to the beach, but Nicky need to have some performance review. He skip for this schedule. But me and Rani, my work mate still on schedule. We went there with Femi, team from Bali. And the beach is awesome. We went to Serangan Beach. Near to our office, and a lot of Surfer came and surf.

Lunch at Serangan Beach

2. Okay we continue to have sunset and it should be to La Planca for the place name, but thanks to our Boss, who suddenly choose Crystal Palace because he think its empty. The place quite good but as famous as la planca, the beach called Double Six.

Rani, Me and Femi 

3. So we continue eating at Nourish, the best Pork Ribs in Bali...uh yeahhh *cant get any great picture, too dark but in that place wew our Mr Smith drink a lot of Martini and getting drunk. We continue to other place called Red Carpet and another shot of course made nicky getting more and more not his self. Then yes getting worse until Nicky and Mike very drunk. I cant tell the stories after that, but the result is new iphone 5 s from Nicky drowning in our pool. Yes that gold iphone is totally broken. And you can guess what happen in the next morning...yep our schedule totally ruined. We suppose to have one day in Ubud, to make Nicky feels about more Bali, but he cant awake at all from his bed. He then sleep all day, and wake up for dinner. Me and Rani was lil bit upset but keep doing a great things on other day :). But at dinner Nicky joining us in Ubud

Red Carpet

Pork Ribs from Nourish

3. Must things to do, try coffee shop called The Revolver, nice place to have a breakfast. A good Food and also a good ambiance. The location is near seminyak square. Just park your car to Seminyak Square and walk around 3 minute to the coffee shot. And you may also visiting the Vintage shop next to the mart near Revolver. Seminyak also have plenty place to go for shopping. After that we continue to Ubud to have some massage and also you also need to try another coffee shop in Ubud called Seniman Coffee. We get some picture with the owner, what a great day actually, and continue to have Very Fancy Dinner in a place called Locavore. Nice place to have a dinner :)

4. Finally next day nicky got his day awake and we doing some beach performance and art thingy. Dont forget to go to Nusa dua just to have the sun the beach etc, continue eating at Nasi Ayam Bu Oka, and art in Jenggala at Jimbaran and also sunset at Sundara at 4 season hotels. Note: things happen, Nicky still have his hangover actually. So yes, on our way home he keep complaining about traffic and he need to go home early. And yes after that in the middle of night he is Puke and he said its because Indonesian Food. Okay then he said : No more Indonesian Food please. And yes after that, he got another day sleeping because he got totally sick. But he have a good time and enjoying the day actually. Oh ya dont forget to try 5D experience in Seminyak Square, 7 minute movie enjoying the feeling of using roller coaster .

 
 


5. On last day, we dont do something interesting just enjoying the day with our boss wife and also visiting office. And after that enjoying another day working from Bali because our flight get cancelled. As Summary...YES WE NEED TO HAVE ANOTHER HOLIDAY :)

Fakta tentang Flappy Bird

Sekalinya ngepost di tahun 2014 malah ngebahas game. Yang menarik adalah ketika semua update path temen-temen maenan flappy bird... sebagai anak yg ga bs jauh dari HP donlot dong ya... dan menemukan beberapa fakta berikut:

1. perlu santai berat buat maen

2. ga pake tegang juga bermanfaat buat maenan game ini

3. lebih seru pake jempol sih...kalo pake telunjuk suka ngetrill telunjuknya..macam ngehang gitulah.. kalo diibaratkan dengan komputer ada gambar jam pasirnya

4. pastikan kondisi phone dalam airplane status..karena tiap notifikasi dr setiap social media yg aktif bikin mati nih game

5. Manfaatkan HP temen jd ada jiwa kompetitif didalam permainan buat ngalahin temen...

6. Please berat jangan samakan flappy bird dengan mario bross...dan ngarep ada princess didepan kemenangan..

7. jangan anggap serius permaenan ini...adanya bete kalo pas maen si burung mendadak nabrak tembok